Lots of different moments come in our life, some of them are
cheerful, and some are sorrowful. Every person deals with it in his own way and
own kind of technique which differs from person to person. But as a human being
we share lots of similar things like feeling of happiness, depression, etc. and
solution may also come in a similar way. So I would like share my thoughts
considering common problem for most of peoples.
Loss, victory as we know always part of our life and it
directs us in different ways. Victory directs us to happiness then it directs
to sharing it with people in own way like someone gives party on victory;
someone visits temple, etc. it is always enjoyable and exciting. Similarly loss
also directs us to sadness, then it also directs to sharing with other people
particularly with close one, but here question arise that what to do when there
is no one to share our feeling of sadness. As there is unwritten rule of life, that
everyone join us in happy moment but hard to find one at bad time. Then where
we get directed and how to deal with it?
When there is no one to hear you, then it directs to
yourself means your mind or your heart whatever you say it. And you start
talking with your own mind. As our mind is most powerful thing in the world, it
can direct wherever you want and as your position is of depression it’s hard to
cheer up your mind. So sometime someone’s mind direct it to horrible thought
like suicide. It’s really horrible situation. The solution to deal with this is
hidden in the situation when you start talking to your mind. Whenever you come
in this situation just move your thought to past right from the situation where
you were get trapped. Just like scanning your own life, start thinking since
your childhood and focus on the situation when you have dealt with difficult
situation.
It is not important that how big problem you have dealt in
your life, important part is that how you come out of it, even though that
might be very small thing. In that scanning wherever you will find that moment
at that time just give congratulation or praise yourself for that past victory.
Slowly slowly you will get more such moments in your past, right from your
primary school stage or even early to your present situation of life. Some of
which you may have faced bravely, some problems with tactically, some with your
sharpness, some with diplomacy, some with mind game, even some with politics
too. OMG! In how many ways you have dealt with them. Now you will remember
sorted incidences (bad or good) of your life and how much all were interesting
even though some were bad, guilty one, silly but this can happen only in human
life. Wow! That’s really our life is like interesting cinema. So how can you
miss this cinema just because of some time bore interval? Make it full
interesting film only with happy ending.
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